Make 2007 Your Year
Gain Powerful Counseling Skills so You Can be of Better Service to Your Congregation!

Learn Innovative Concepts and Techniques to Create a Warm yet Challenging, Counseling Environment that will Provide Your Parishioners with the Support they Need while Encouraging Different Behavior so their Situation Can Improve

  • Are you often called upon to provide relationship guidance to your parishioners?
  • Have you ever felt in over your head because you weren’t trained in counseling skills?
  • Would you like to learn a method of counseling that mirrors the Serenity Prayer?
  • Would you like to learn a way to help people make better choices in their lives and still follow your religious doctrine?
  • Then Reality Therapy is for YOU! Come to this dynamic, interactive, informative training and leave with a solid understanding of human behavior and a new approach to help people manage the struggles in their lives. Reality Therapy and Choice Theory® focus on teaching people to develop need-satisfying relationships in their lives. You won’t leave this training unchanged!

Dear Dedicated Clergy Members,

I know the clergy often find themselves in a unique position. They are servants of God who are also charged with providing for their congregation. I’m sure this can be a daunting task. As a counselor, I know that many parishioners would prefer to talk with their spiritual advisor about their personal and family problems than they would consult a professional therapist. This can be seriously challenging situation for clergy. While you have the Bible as your foundation and sometimes can clearly see a better path for your congregation member, you may not have the counseling background or experience to provide the help they truly need. Reality Therapy can change that!

If you are already trained in pastoral counseling and have a good handle on meeting the counseling needs of your parishioners, great! Reality Therapy training can provide you more tools for your toolbox. You will gain additional knowledge to make what you already do even more effective.

Reality Therapy is a relative easy, four-step process to help people reflect on their own behavior and solve problems. You, the helper, are really not the expert with all the answers, but rather you provide the guidance to help your parishioners figure out what path is best for them. Reality Therapy will provide you with a structure, a road map if you will, for providing counseling interventions for people in need.

 

We have some clergy who have taken this training, gotten certified and gone on to become instructors themselves. Here’s what they have to say:

As a pastor, RT and CT are scripturally compatible with Judao-Christian belief and practice.”

—Rhon Carleton, Senior Faculty, William Glasser Institute, Hospital Chaplin, Montgomery, Alabama, Presbyterian Church, USA

For me, CT begins to describe the freedom and power that God wants His children to enjoy. He does not want us held captive by another person or by an addicting behavior. With the Holy Spirit’s help, CT provides tools for understanding and change.

—–Jim Roy, Seventh Day Adventist,
Assistant Professor of Education at Pacific Union College, Angwin, CA.

Years ago, when I realized I did not know what I was doing and hence did not have a right to counsel in the lives of persons facing difficulties and troubles, I became certified in RT. CT is the way God created us and RT provides the tools needed for effective, life changing counselors. I have used RT for over 20 year and highly recommend it for pastors.

—–Pastor Richard W. Conner, Salem United Methodist Church, Manheim, PA

Choice Theory®, the theory behind Reality Therapy is a nondenominational approach but clearly integrates well with Biblical teachings. When others have asked me to explain Choice Theory® briefly, I tell them it’s similar to the Serenity Prayer. Choice Theory® is about helping people stop wasting their energy on attempting change things they have no control over and helping them to use their resources more wisely on things they can change—their own behavior and thinking. So many of today’s problems are caused by unhappy relationships—couples, parents and children, people at work. No one wants to change what they are doing so they can improve the relationships. It is easier to stay stuck and blame the other people for what they are or are not doing. Unfortunately, this approach leaves people very frustrated and not knowing where to turn. Choice Theory® help them understand why people do what they do and then to create a plan to affect change by changing something they are doing. It’s a very powerful process.

I learned reality therapy and Choice Theory® in 1987 and loved it much that I became an instructor myself in 1988 so I could teach these ideas to anyone else who wanted to develop the expertise. Over the years, I have taught thousands of helping professionals just like you. Some came to the training because they wanted to get the information; others came because they worked for a company who made the training mandatory. Whatever the original circumstances, most left my workshop very pleased they had attended, with a new outlook how to better help others and a positive attitude and concrete plan for implementation.

Coaching for Excellence’s, LLC Basic Intensive Week in Reality Therapy and Choice Theory® will provide you with the tools you need to be even more effective in counseling your congregation members. It will provide you with a model to help your clients self-evaluate their own behavior so they can take effective control of their lives while relieving you of the responsibility of solving their problems for them.

One of the things I like best about Choice Theory® is its wide-spread application—you can use it in your personal, as well as your professional life. It provides transferable skills for everyday life. Choice Theory® helped me to become a better counselor, mother, life partner, friend and a better all around person. When you truly embrace its teachings, Choice Theory® becomes a way of life instead of a hypothetical theory of human behavior.

Reality therapy is a short-term approach with long-term results. When you learn how to use it, you will be teaching your clients Choice Theory® so they can begin to use the process with themselves. Reality therapy helps clients move from a victim role to empowered self-reliance.

And, if you act today, you will be enrolled in a Basic Intensive Week of training in the ideas and concepts of Dr. William Glasser’s Reality Therapy, Choice Theory®, Lead Management and Quality School Program. This week of training is approved through the William Glasser Institute and counts toward the first step in the Reality Therapy certification process. Here’s some of what I’ll be sharing with you:

How to build effective relationships with those you are attempting to help.

How to clarify what a person really wants.

How to utilize a four-step approach to problem-solving and behavior change.

How to create a successful plan and maximize its achievement.

Create the counseling environment that is most conducive to behavior change. You can provide even better service to your congregation when you focus on improving your counseling skills. You will become more comfortable in your sessions and really can make a huge difference in the lives of your parishioners!

Past Participant’s Comments

"I can use Choice Theory at my workplace but also with my personal and everyday life. It was one of the best trainings I’ve had yet. This week of training has been a
life-changing event for me!"

---Sue Myers, East Berlin, PA

“I think Kim has an excellent way of filtering her knowledge of CT/RT
in a way that individuals can understand.”

---Nora Ehrig, Ennaus, PA
marsky@enter.net

“I feel that Kim Olver is an outstanding speaker. She has a very down-to-earth
approach that makes things more understandable. Kim has an
outgoing, very personable personality, which makes her
teaching more interesting".

---Teresa Murray, Towanda, PA

“Great tools to help in learning process. Very nice job with explanations.”

---Gina Bellanca, Wilkes-Barre, PA

"After taking Realith Therapy with Kim, I came away wanting more information on the process. She was so stimulating and the classes went so quickly, I was stunned the end came so quickly. The learning experience was more gratifying than expected. Kim treats everyone as if they are an old friend making her way of teaching like putting on an old comfortable sweater. Thanks Kim for everything."

---Carmene Jones, Chicago, IL

“This training really opened my mind to thinking more about my Quality World and what I can be doing to achieve it. I will be working more on myself and my goals and I
now feel empowered to do it!”

---Nikki Rohrback, Osceola Mills, PA

“I have been taking transformational, spiritual and self-development classes for
over 30 years. This includes one day trainings, along with on going Buddhist training, numerous
retreats and conferences and extended programs on various topics and I will say to you that
your class was one of the best I have ever taken. It was complete, enough time for
feedback/evaluations and you taught in a way that no matter what learning strength someone
had you made sure you played to that strength. You made it fun and interesting.
I enjoyed getting to know all the class members.”

---Margaret Lutzke, Waynesboro, PA

“The training was a lot of fun. There was a lot of interaction that helped
create a great learning environment.”

---Michelle Bennett, Williamsport, PA
mbennet1@hotmail.com

Attend this Workshop—Realize Your Full Potential
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This is no ordinary workshop where you sit behind a table while you listen to someone speak all day for a week. This training is highly interactive, allowing all participants the opportunity to learn the information in whatever mode they learn best. There will be opportunities for kinesthetic, visual and auditory learners alike. You will learn from each other’s experiences, as well as from the instructor.

There will be opportunity to practice the new skills you learn. This will not simply be theoretical professional development. You will utilize Choice Theory® to guide your reality therapy practice. You will use the four questions to promote change. You will have the opportunity to role play past or current counseling experiences to possibly see the situation from a different angle. You will help others evaluate the effectiveness of their choices. You will practice giving feedback by facilitating the other person’s self-evaluation.

You Can Expect:

      • Enhanced communication skills.
      • Enhanced problem conceptualization skills.
      • Effective problem solving skills that encourages change in the one being counseled.
      • Begin the Reality Therapy certification process.
      • Receive tools for use in your personal, as well as professional life.
      • Empowerment in your counseling sessions and a reduction in stress and feelings of burn out.

As far as training programs go, training in Choice Theory®/Reality Therapy is relatively inexpensive. For an individual pastor attending a week of training, the cost is $500 per person. If you can get a group of at least twelve (12) interested people together who want to receive the training, then it would be more cost effective to hire me to come to one of your churches where I can train up to sixteen (16) individuals for $6000 without them incurring any travel expenses.

If you are interested in hosting an on-site workshop, please contact me at 708-957-6047 or email me at kim@coachingforexcellence.biz for special pricing.

This training will help you gain the confidence you seek on a daily basis. It will give you a model to explain all human behavior and a direction for how to proceed with those you serve.

I offer this week of training in two possible formats. It is either offered as a one-week, four to five consecutive days of training totaling a minimum of 27 hours or it can be offered two-days one week and two days within two weeks of the first days of training for a minimum of 30 hours of training.

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Scholarships

The William Glasser Institute provides for a scholarship program for individuals demonstrating economic need. There are a limited number of full paid and half paid scholarships available, so apply early. Should you be interested in applying, please contact me at 708-957-6047 or email me at kim@coachingforexcellence.biz and I will give you the necessary information about applying for a scholarship.

Reality Therapy Certification

Certification is a five-step process. If you are interested in certification in Choice Theory® and Reality Therapy, then this Basic Intensive Week is the first step. The certification process can occur in as little as 18 months or it can take as long as a person wants. There is no expiration date on training. The following are the steps in the certification process:

          • Basic Intensive Week
          • Basic Practicum
          • Advanced Intensive Week
          • Advanced Practicum
          • Certification Week

Don’t Forget Your Continuing Education Credits!

There are many possible CEUs connected with this training:

    In Illinois:

      • National Board of Certified Counselor CEUs
      • Illinois LPC, LCPC, LSW and LCSW CEUs
      • Illinois teacher CPDUs

      In Pennsylvania:

      • National Board of Certified Counselor CEUs
      • Pennsylvania LSW, LCSW and LPC CEUs

Academic Credits

Whitworth College will provide undergraduate or graduate credit for participants attending Institute-approved Intensive Weeks. Graceland University will provide graduate credits for Intensive Weeks and the Certification Week.

Make this Investment in Developing Your Skill Level! Purchase Now
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When you sign up for this life-changing Basic Intensive Week Workshop you’ll learn:

    • The five basic needs that drive all human behavior.
    • The seven deadly and the seven caring relationship habits.
    • The four essential components of behavior.
    • How the perceptual system influences a person’s reality.
    • Methods for discovering what your clients really want.
    • Strategies for helping your clients self-evaluate the effectiveness of their own behavior.
    • How to unlock your personal power by focusing primarily on those things over which you have control.
    • How to help two or more clients negotiate for a win/win solution.

It's all within YOUR reach when you take this Basic Intensive Week. It’s easy, it’s simple and it’s VERY affordable.

Purchase Now for a Successful Year
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Register Now for this Basic Intensive Week and You'll Get this Special Bonus: Two Free Months of Group Coaching.
A $250 Value!

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As a SPECIAL BONUS OFFER FOR ORDERING THIS BASIC INTENSIVE WEEK TRAINING you will receive 2 FREE months of Group Coaching (A $250 Value) to include:

    • 2 Months of Unlimited e-mail Q&A about Reality Therapy and Choice Theory®
    • Four 60-minute group coaching calls

These coaching features are designed to help you apply what you learned during your Basic Intensive Week. They are focused to guide you to build momentum, so you will see some immediate results of your actions.

Purchase Now and Watch Your Effectiveness Soar
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This is a package that you can’t afford to miss. Take the first step in becoming Reality Therapy Certified and obtain the structure and direction you need for being even more effective when counseling your parishioners about personal and family issues. Lead them on a journey of self-discovery and empowerment while allowing you freedom from helper stress and burnout. Everybody wins—You can’t afford to miss this life-changing workshop.

Cancellation Policy

You will receive your money back in full should you cancel prior to 60 days of the beginning of the workshop. If you cancel between 30 and 60 days of the workshop starting date, you will receive 50% back. If you cancel between 30 days prior up to the opening day of the training, you will receive 25% of your registration fee back.

If after reading this letter you still aren’t convinced, you have more questions or simply want some more information, please email Kim@CoachingforExcellence.biz or phone me at 708-957-6047. I will be happy to talk with you.

Make today the day you want it to be!
Unleash the power within you.

Kim Olver
Coaching for Excellence
(708) 957-6047
Kim@CoachingforExcellence.biz
www.CoachingforExcellence.biz

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